Wednesday, June 18, 2008

YoVille

I am so enjoying furnishing my YoVille apartment! :)
come visit it at - http://www.yoville.com/?s=283525.

Church and Business

If God was an entrepreneur, my golly! He would have made millions-no, make it billions, even trillions!

He is the Champ!

Last week, I went with my parents to the Redemptorist Church in Baclaran, or more famously known as Baclaran Church. Every Wednesday, hundreds of people crowd the church praying for good things to come to their lives.

Sometimes, I think,the church is a good place to learn business.

If God has been selling faith, boy! Did He capture all the segments of all markets.

Let’s see, at Baclaran, there are people about the age of a grandmother, and a grandfather.

There are groups of teen-agers mostly females.

A husband and a wife.

A single man and a woman.

A father, a mother.

A pregnant mom.

A doctor. A nursing student. A teacher. An engineer perhaps.

A sister, an aunt.

An uncle. A friend. A brother.

A student, a young professional.

Children- girls and boys.

There are those who went there with their cars and their SUVs. There are those who went there barefooted. Some were just wearing slippers and used it as kneeling pad as they pray their way to the altar. On the other hand, some rode public transport vehicles to make their prayers heard.

In short, everyone, from all walks of life, is there.

Everyone doing one common thing- praying.

Husband and wife could be praying for a long and lasting relationship or for the kids to finish schooling. From here, we can offer marriage enhancing seminars or for kids, school insurance for kids.

A single man and woman could be praying to find their partners in life.

From here, we can offer events like meeting people. Dating, etc. and what are other things that go with dating? Hmm.. fine dining place, flowers, chocolates. Author a book how to meet the right guy for you.

How about the babies and the infants? Let’s see, clothes, stroller, toys of course! milk, feeding bottles.

Lola and lolo can be offered health products, or leisure and recreational activities. It’s their time to prolong their life and enjoy life more.

And come to think of if, whatever age bracket, gender, or status in life, we are all praying for things that will make our lives worry-free and convenient.

And it is amazing, how we all have our faith. Faith, that we did not buy from a mall or from online shop.

But God loves us so much, He gave faith to us for free!

We keep using faith in our everyday lives.

And as what they say, when you believe in something, you know you can make it happen. And maybe, just like God believes in us and in the faith He taught us, that’s the reason why we keep on coming back to him and we will always be His loyal and regular customers.

Listen Ladies!

It is my habit to dress up whenever my boyfriend and I go out on a date. I enjoy it, I don’t know why.

I really exert effort to look my best-and yeah be beautiful for him (I typed this smiling shyly). I plan what shirt or blouse, or dress to wear and even my shoes.

Undergoing all those preparation, sometimes, I expect him to be generous in complimenting me. Like, this color looks good on you, etc.

So, we went out, watched a good movie, ate dinner, laugh, have a nice silent walk, until we go home, I never heard, one single compliment.

I am surprised-tired even (for waiting and for preparing). But I don’t tell him.

Laughters.

Don’t get me wrong, he’s very wonderful and such a nice nice nice, loving man.

but as a girl, you know, you enjoy affirmation.

Sometimes, I think if I am just too sensitive or is it but natural to all girls be like that.

After reading the article below, I found the answer!

Aha! I’m not the only girl in the planet feeling that way.

So for you ladies who are waiting for your man to affirm you once in a while, this is for you.

You might not know that he has said it a lot of times, but we were not listening.



A Dating Guide for Women: "Man Talk" Translation

By David Wygant Special to Yahoo! Personals Updated: Jun 17, 2008

When you first look at a man and a woman, you are able to notice the subtle differences between the sexes. It is when the two sexes communicate with each other, however, that the differences become truly glaring. This is because one is speaking "he talk" while the other is speaking "she talk."

Where this difference really becomes a problem is when you are in a relationship, and you need to know how to combine "he talk" and "she talk" into "we talk." So I feel like it's my job as a man and as a dating coach to help women learn how to understand "he talk" (or "man talk" as I like to call it), so that they won't need to hire a translator to understand what men are saying.

Women want men to express their feelings. They complain, "Why can't he just say he loves me?" or, "I wish he would just compliment me more."

What you need to pay attention to and realize, though, is that men do tell you they love you and compliment you... they just do it using their own language. Men, in fact, sometimes don't use words at all when they are communicating with you.

This will help you understand men's verbal and non-verbal language.

“Sometimes it's not what men say, but it's their actions that are significant.”

Sometimes it's not what men say, but it's their actions that are significant. It is necessary for women to learn to interpret men's roundabout way of communicating with them.

Here are 10 things that men say and do, and what they really mean:

1. He starts talking about how crazy all his single friends lives are, and then he tells you that he doesn't miss it at all. What most women will think if they hear this, is that he misses those days. This is not true. He says this because he is looking for confirmation that you feel exactly the same way. He also wants to communicate that he's ready to take the relationship to the next level.

2. Since you recently took him to your family's house for dinner, he can't stop talking about how much fun he had with your brother. What he means here is that he really likes your family, and wouldn't mind being a part of your family.

3. He teases you about things like how clumsy you are or about how you put smiley faces in every one of your emails. What he's really telling you when he does this is that he really likes you a lot. Remember that men are just giant boys... we tease the ones we love and ignore the ones we don't.

4. A man tells you he needs his space. So what does this mean to you? It means that you need to ignore him and not call him. Men love the chase. By not calling him, he'll start calling you and wondering what happened.

5. A man says that he really wants you to meet his parents. What does this mean in man talk? He's telling you that you are his girlfriend, and that he is ready to take it to the next level by getting you involved with his family. This brings us right to the next bit of man talk.

6. When a man calls you and says, "I want you to meet my friends on Friday night," this is as big as meeting his parents. He's introducing you to his pack. It means that he thinks you are attractive and sexy, and he wants to show you off to his friends.

7. After sleeping over at his house several times, he tells you that the next time you sleep over you should bring some things to make you feel more comfortable and a change of clothing. In man talk, that is basically telling you that he's wondering what it would be like to live with you. He also wants your things around.

8. You have plans with him on a Sunday, and you find out that he passed up floor seats to his favorite basketball team to keep those plans with you. What does that tell you in man talk? It tells you that he's hooked... and that you are his girlfriend.

9. He is watching one of your favorite shows on a night you're not together, and he calls you afterwards to talk about it. In man talk, what does this mean? By doing this, he's telling you that he pays attention to you, and he's interested in learning more about you and sharing more things with you. Men generally do not choose to watch "Project Runway" on their own. If we're watching your TV shows, we really like you.

10. He tells you, "I've cleaned today." What this means in man talk is, "I spent the day doing something I dislike more than anything." You need to realize that when a man says this to you, he really likes you. To most men, cleaning the house is just about the worst way he can spend a day.

“Once you understand the hidden language and actions of man talk, you'll become far more secure in your dating and relationships.”

Once you understand the hidden language and actions of man talk, you'll become far more secure in your dating and relationships. So the next time you go over to your man's house and he looks at you and says, "I cleaned today," you'll know that he really meant to say, "I must really like you, because I can ignore my mess most of the time."

Monday, June 16, 2008

things that love has proved true to me

1. When you are totally in to this person, you wouldn't care if the guy next to you, or sitting across is the most handsome and chiseled model there is.

2. you extend your patience a mile longer.

3. you think twice before saying anything because, you might hurt him. if you need to say it, paraphrase it a bit.

4. you let him go out with his friends from time to time.

5. you give him space.

6. always remember, that it shouldn't always be about you.

so sweet...

I find it really sweet, when a guy kinds of pull down the sleeves or strap of the shirt
and gently kisses the girl's shoulder.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

when you need a little boost

“I live in a space of thankfulness, and I have been rewarded a million times over for it. I started giving thanks for small things, and the more thankful I became, the more my bounty increased. That’s because what you focus on expands, and when you focus on the goodness in your life, you create more of it.”
– Oprah Winfrey